This Is Where Men Get Better and STAY Better
Valor Intensive is an action-oriented program designed to produce life changing results helping men overcome debilitating and frustrating sexually compulsive behaviors. We believe that you can act your way into a new way of thinking and feeling.
The time is now to experience lasting freedom from shame and the destructive patterns that are keeping your life small.
If you are sick and tired of being sick and tired, you have come to the right place.
There's nothing you can say that we haven't heard or experienced ourselves.
In the throes of desperation and despair brought on by shame-induced sexual behaviors, it can feel like no one understands. We know the chaos and endless cycles of frustration felt in this neighborhood; we have lived there, too. All of the Valor coaches are in long-term sexual recovery. WE ARE YOU. Valor is a safe space to be heard and to be seen, free from judgement.
Why Our Program Works
This is an intensive skills-based approach and methodology that integrates six key components that has been proven to help men get sexually sober.
It’s not a one-size-fits-all approach as we meet men where they are at. Whether you are exploring these challenges for the first time, currently in therapy or finishing residential treatment, Valor Recovery can help. We take the time to understand the specific needs of each Valor member to put them on the best path to long term success.
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1:1 COACHING
Learning new skills, dealing with impulses and urges, understanding root causes that drive these behaviors, and developing your roadmap to healing.
TECHNOLOGY ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER
Putting filters on your devices to limit or restrict access to explicit content can go a long way in healing and building back trust in relationships.
MEN’S GROUPS
This is where the miracle really happens. Men heal best in community. Men need other men to become better men. Vulnerability, empathy, empowerment.
THE VALOR APP
Daily readings, recovery tips & tools, curriculum and the ability to be part of a community of other men who are in the program.
DAILY ACCOUNTABILITY
Providing inspiration and motivation for change and holding men accountable to practicing new behaviors on a daily basis.
FAMILY SUPPORT
Providing families, especially spouses, information about the program and treatment updates, if requested.
Transcending Shame to Live a Bigger Life
Guilt tells you that you did something bad. Shame says you are bad. That’s why shame is one of the hardest emotions to regulate. It causes people to direct their anger inward, which can result in the most visceral pain. Shame spirals lead to self-sabotage; consistently doing the thing you want most to stop doing. We want to help you overcome shame and develop the resources to avoid self-destructive behaviors.
What does sexual recovery have to do with your career, relationships, and ability to experience profound love? …Everything.
It is time to finally become the man you are destined to be. Shame has kept your life small. It has permeated to other areas of your life. You might be holding yourself back from achieving great things in your career. You might struggle to develop intimate relationships or have never been in love. Part of recovery is imagining that you can have more. You can live a fulfilling life colored by joy, purpose, and peace of mind.
Life begins one step outside of your comfort zone. What would you do if you could live on the other side of shame? What kind of man do you want to be?
“My relationship with my wife has improved tremendously. We can communicate our needs, struggles, and desires in a healthy way that makes overcoming these urges much more manageable. Thank you!”
Del, age…
“Valor changed my life. The tools Valor equipped me with are invaluable and part of my daily life. So many other men need this model in their life to remove the stigma and shame.”
Dorian, age…